The Discovery.

Its funny the way things turn out sometimes.

I guess it's true, all great changes really are preceded by chaos.

In life, not everything is always what it seems.

However, we can trick ourselves into believing that everything is just fine.

Even when fine fails to describe how un healthy a situation can be.

This false descriptor ties into something I call, the difference between

  loving someone and being in love with someone. 

Sometimes, it takes the other persons final actions to make you realize that you only loved them all along, and maybe you really weren't meant to be with one another.  

Which then leads to something which recently struck me as so obvious that I can't believe I missed it all along.

Before we can truly give ourselves to someone, we have to be happy with who we are.

If you cannot make yourself happy, how can you make your significant other happy?

"We must be our own before we can be another's."-Ralph Waldo Emerson

It's as if I opened my eyes to a whole new world.

And I feel as if I owe a thank you in a way.

Something seemingly so terrible has led me in a pursuit of happiness.

A happiness that depends directly on myself.

If you ever get the chance to discover who you really are, 

take it.

It will lead you on an amazing journey down the path of self discovery.

-K